True love calls for us to surrender our entire heart, soul, mind, and body to its power. This can be an extremely difficult thing to do if you’re a habitual “control freak.” But once you stop trying to control everything with all of your false beliefs, defense mechanisms, manipulations, and half-truths, you can begin the real process of healing.
All of us resist surrendering to love because we innately know that when we’re in that deep place of love, all of our unhealed issues will surface. This is God’s compassionate way of allowing us to be in a safe place, before we’re asked to confront our greatest fears, our deepest wounds, and our biggest regrets.
Love has the power to reveal all. This revelatory period becomes the emotionally rocky junction in a relationship when many people jump ship or run away in fear. These people tell themselves the biggest lie of all: Before love came into my life everything was okay, but now that this person is here all this anxiety, fear, and panic has set in. But the truth is — that all this angst was always there. Love just brought forth what was buried deep inside.
Remember — until we’re healed beings — a great love will always bring forth a great fear.
You can become the master of your destiny, if you find the courage to follow your heart, which is telling you to forge forward, even though every bone in your body screams at you to flee.
Do you need to take down the barbed wire, let the guard dogs go, and drop the weapons of mass destruction that surround your being, so that you can let go and let love?
When God blesses us with a Soul Mate, if we surrender to that love, we’re being given a chance to learn our life lessons through love, peace, and joy.
So, the choice is yours — will you continue to walk the path of fear and learn most of your karmic lessons through suffering, or will you surrender to the healing power of love?